Stranger Anxiety & Fear of Unfamiliar People
Stranger anxiety begins around 6-12 months. Baby cries, turns away, or clings when approached by unfamiliar people (even grandparents they don't see often).
This is normal cognitive development - baby can now distinguish between familiar and unfamiliar faces and prefers familiar.
Peaks around 12-15 months, gradually improves as toddler becomes more independent.
Not a sign of poor socialization - it's healthy development showing secure attachment to caregivers.
What to Do
- Don't force baby to go to unfamiliar people - this increases fear
- Let baby warm up at their own pace from safety of your arms
- Ask visitors to approach slowly and let baby initiate interaction
- Stay calm and reassuring - your comfort helps baby feel safe
- Narrate what's happening: 'This is Grandma, she loves you, you're safe'
- Regular exposure to same people helps - consistency builds familiarity
- Choose consistent caregivers rather than many rotating babysitters